Conversations about Death and Dying Report

We held a very successful conference at the start of September. Speakers included Dr Naomi Richards, Dr Lonny Shavelson, Professor Celia Kitzinger, Adrian Ward and Mark Hazelwood. Copies of presentations can be found below.

Ahead of the conference Dr Shavelson spoke with BBC Radio Scotland. You can listen again to this here.

The conference was chaired by Rev Scott Mckenna who opened the conference by talking about assisted dying within a religious context. The Rev McKenna also spoke about the need for compassion at the end of life and that the move away from a paternalistic approach means we need to listen to each other about our wishes to ensure we have a good death.

Those who attended the conference heard about how Medical Aid in Dying worked in California, about the need for Advance Directives and what Incapacity means in Scottish Law.

C Kitzinger Presentation

A Ward Presentation

S Paul Presentation

N Richards Presentation

J Ramsey Presentation

D Grenham Presentation

L Shavelson Presentation

Friends at the End Mourns the Death of Omid T

It is with great sadness that we hear of Omid’s death at the Lifecircle assisted dying clinic in Switzerland today.  Omid T was awaiting judgment from the High Court on his legal challenge seeking a change in the law on assisted dying,  challenge which was supported by Friends at the End.

Whilst a relief to know that Omid is finally at peace and that he died on his own terms, the frustration and injustice of his death in Switzerland is profound.
Omid, who our CEO Amanda Ward met on a number of occasions was witty, funny, charming and friendly to everyone he came across. He was also a very sick and profoundly disabled man, who should not have had to leave his home, the UK, to travel abroad to get the relief he so craved.
We are convinced that if our politicians experienced the pain and suffering Omid, his family, and the hundreds of others who have travelled abroad for a peaceful death have had to endure, they’d not want that for themselves or any of our citizens.
We are past the point of turning a blind eye – elected representatives must listen to their constituents, the overwhelming majority of whom support a safe controlled UK assisted dying law and act now.
Omid was a kind, compassionate, charming character – he’d already been through so much with his illness and he deserved better than having to take matters in to his own hands.

Conversations About Death and Dying – Radio Interview

In the run up to our conference Dr Lonny Shavelson spoke on BBC Radio Scotland along with Gordon Macdonald (Care Not Killing) and Rona Tynan (MS patient from Inverness).   You can listen in here starting at 2.22.00.

Lonny spoke about the need for change and about how the choice is made by a small number of people and that across the 7 states who have legal medical aid in dying in the US he has yet to come across a situation where someone has made the choice to use this option due to family pressure.

Rona spoke about how she felt it is cruel to not let someone end their life peacefully, and that we need to recognise that there is no one size fits all in end of life care and services need to be geared up to meet individual needs.